to be absent from the body...

Yesterday my brother (pictured above) lost his mom. This man plays such a role in my life. I meet him when I was about 10 years old, when he started dating my older sister. All I can remember from back then is that I loved him. As I have grown up and him and my sister got married, I value him as a black man. My dad really didnt set an example on how a man should treat a woman, neither did my stepdad. So when I look at him , he is a role model for what a real man looks like and how he should treat his wife. Chad loves my sister more than anything in this world, and I just love that about him. So when his mother passed away yesterday, it crushed me! For a man to lose his mom... I dont even know what to say. Both are my parents are still with me, and I cant even imagine how life would be without the woman who birthed me here. I love him so much and dont want him to be in pain, but what do you say to comfort someone in this time. I know my God tells me that to be absent from the body means to be present with the Lord, and I absolutely believe that. But what about the people that are left behind once they are with the Lord. I pray that God protects his heart and provides all the peace that surpasses all understanding. I love you chad and pray for you everyday. May your mom rest in perfect peace.


-courtcole